Coincidence & The Obvious

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co·in·ci·dence

kōˈinsədəns,-ˌdens/

noun

1. 1.

   a remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances without apparent causal connection.

I've never been one of those fans that's been that much into stalking Rob and Kristen's IG/Twitter/Social Media accounts and really until the last few months I really couldn't have told you much about any of their friends and still today I have a hard time keeping the who's who of them all straight...but there have been many coincidences that have occurred. Many where their friends are involved.

When looking at these events/pix/comments in isolation they don't seem like much but when looking at them as a whole they begin to tell a much more telling picture a picture that I believe leads us straight to The Obvious....

Back in October we got this:  Why oh why, would one of Kristen's gang carve a fetus in a pumpkin, not your typical Halloween spirit!  LOL

Coincidence?

Found on jezzbedwani

His brother on the left added this comment and has not backed down.

beddezz...Hi All thank you for your support of Rob.  We can confirm this pic was taken in the last few weeks.  @jezzbedwani has asked all enquiries to be directed to @Toby ducan  who is RP's manager in Aus.  Rob has asked for privacy whilst he awaits he exciting arrival of his first child. Thanks to @kristenstewart for taking this great pic.

So this happened...you can still find the pic and all the comments here.

Coincidence?

So at Sundance we got this little gif...first let me just point out how Kristen is dressed.  At what Sundance has she ever attended where she has been this "buttoned up"?  That's right none!  And as we know that from August 2013 til now Kristen has made a 180 degree turn from how she used to dress to the way she's dressing now...doing everything in her power to camouflage her belly.

So her adjusting her top to hid her belly....

Coincidence?

In January, Kristen traveled to Paris to shoot her Chanel Campaign that's come out recently.  I remember those of us looking at all the pix coming out of her at the airport so many as usual saying there was no way she could be pregnant and then those of us that could still see that bump underneath her huge sweatshirt.  Upon landing in Paris, Kristen had switched out of the sweatshirt she had left LA in and swapped it out for this YES shirt....

Coincidence?

So while Kristen was filming Still Alice in NYC her friend Lindsey Byrnes was with her.  Lindsey for those that don't know is a professional photographer.  One day, she posted pix of Kristen getting ready to go to set with this great Tom Boy shirt on...and then shortly after she posted a pregnant woman wearing the same shirt and then several days later Kristen was seen leaving her hotel wearing this fabulous "no problem" cap and again a few days later she's snapped another pregnant woman wearing a cap with the same saying.

I love that the haters and naysayers said that she was clearly ridiculing us for thinking and discussing Kristen being pregnant.  I have to say if they wanted to stop all this talk they would have been more blatant...not subtle, if anything her friends are fierce in their protection of Kristen and Rob!

Coincidence?

So this happened...this is brittenelle for those that do not know...she took this selfie and Kristen through her purported IG account messaged "Tampax" because of the tampax box behind brittenelle in the pic.   Brittenelle responded..."yeah, they are for you"  These comments have since been deleted which is more fuel to suggest that Kristen does in fact have an IG account for those that do not believe that she does.  I do believe she does and you are free to disagree, but I only discuss her IG when there's something pertinent to discuss because again for those with limited brain capacity it is a private account and the only time we get any true insight is when she makes comments like this on other's IG accounts like brittenelles that are not private...

So the thought is that brittenelle was teasing Kristen about the tampons cause clearly she doesn't need them when pregnant.  LOL

Coincidence?

So back on Kristen's birthday, Jules posted this pic and made the comment about spring finally sprunging...LOL along with the cute pink flamingo.  A few days ago Charlotte posted this pic of her and her new stuff pink flamingo.

I had totally blown Jules's comments off thinking that a pink flamingo is just a pink flamingo and as far as the spring comments still can't decipher that to mean anything more than it does...

Most of us are aware that not all flamingos are pink...only the flamingos that eat shrimp turn pink, the rest are a beautiful white.

Flamingos seem to be a close relative of the Stork...not officially, but they certainly look similar...

I even found a picture of this on the internet

Hmmm...never seen a pink stork before but I've seen plenty of pink flamingos...and now a days its very common to have a huge pink flamingo in one's yard announcing the birth of a girl.  So now we've had not one but two people in Kristen's life post pix of pink flamingos.

Coincidence?

CJ posted this pic himself in this floral hat with the caption "Look closer" some think this has to do with Kristen and the baby....

Coincidence?

There are been a lot of coincidences over the months...taken individually they have no context and it's easy to see them as just coincidence, but when seen all together They make a much more compelling story.

I think the most telling of all of these coincidences is the story from our two gentlemen fans.  Men don't get near into babies like women do.  There is no reason for them to post that pic with that comment if there was no truth behind it.  And for them to still have the pic and comment up after months tells me that they are made of tough metal, we all know what happens to the true fame seekers on twitter and IG once the shit hits the fan they cave, either deleting their post/tweet, making their account private or just deleting the account...

With the exception of CJ and his floral hat..I still can't see where this is a sign, so someones gonna have to point it out to me.  LOL

A special thank you to my peeps below for sending me these comments that led me to this post!

To anom talking about k slap fans in face. No. Understand k is not hiding pg from fans. She hiding it from media, tabs, paps not us. K have given so many signs to her true fans. The fetus carved in pumpkin. Lindsey ig pics of pg women wearing articles of clothes k was just wearing. Tampon ig joke. The yes shirt. Cj pink hat ig saying look closely. These were hints to her fans.

Kristen said her true fans always know she is communicating with them. I believe k has been giving us hints about the pg all along while hiding it from the media. Ex. The fetus carved in Halloween pumpkin, the shirt with yes, cj wearing pink hat and saying look closely, friend joking about not needing tampax, and lyndsey pix of pg women wearing same clothes as k. One might be coincidence but all these together not so much.

If you know of any coincidences I have missed please let me know...I can always add them in!

ob·vi·ous

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adjective

1. easily perceived or understood; clear, self-evident, or apparent.

So we've had so much of this it's getting less and less fun to point it all out because as my premise states it is so obvious.

We can go back to these pictures in December

Obvious

Then these from January

Obvious

We had this great shot in February

And we can't leave out our special sneak peak of SweetP!

How anyone can't see what's moving right in front of their face here, I'll never understand. 

OMFG Obvious 

 Now for something more recent....

Normally I wouldn't be so rude as to point out her tiny bit of back "fat" here..but with all the fucking assholes trying to tell me that she's so "skinny" there's no way she could be pregnant...I just couldn't pass this up when I found it on tumblr today.  Not sure who originally posted this and don't want to get them in trouble if they are not openingly part of babygate...LOL

I also dare anyone to drawn a line straight from her breast down...if you do you will run right into her obvious belly!

Again the worst example the naysayers could have used to prove their point.  But then again their followers are probably "blind" followers and don't have eyes to see the that the flashes bring out the distinctive curve of her baby bump!

Obvious!!!

Awwww look Kristen's hanging out with the woman that "stole" her man!  LMFAO and laughing at anyone that bought that fucking story!

But...I do need to point out to you all that indeed we get a little glimpse of SweetP under Riley's arm.  Is it me or is this an interesting way to hug your friend...but perhaps not so interesting when said friend is pregnant!  LOLOLOL

If you don't believe what you are seeing check out the reflection in the mirror and you can see clearly that Kristen's top is cropped so that is her skin under Riley's arm.

Oh So Fucking Obvious!

And finally just for shits and giggles...we have the side by side comparison of Mila Kunis and Kristen.  We know Mila's pregnant she's officially out with her information though she's not telling how far along she is....if you ask me in the sweatshirt comparison...I think Kristen looks bigger in the belly than Mila does...jmo...

Obvious

At least it is to me!

Have a great week my dears and we'll see if it brings us more of the obvious or more coincidences.

Tales from the Darkside Vol. X

Hello my dear Sluts, Nails and Minions!...I hope this day is treating you well. 

First let me just say this to everyone that says they love my blog!  Thank you!  Thank you from the bottom of my heart.  I really do appreciate the love and the support!

Let's just get to business shall we!  What do my lovely (and not so lovely!) anon's and peeps have for us?

Why do you think RK are still together? He seemingly hasn't been to LA in months and reports are he has moved to London. I really am just curious as to how you remain positive on this when many no longer are. Thanks! Ps-love the kitty pics!

Anon...so glad you love the kitty pix, but honestly...why would anyone believe that RK have split?  I'm not sure why I keep getting asked this question.  The only ppl that have reported a split are the fucking toids and as I've been known to say over and over and fucking over again, I will NEVER believe a toid story without something concrete to back them up.  They occasionally stumble upon the truth but that happens so infrequently I can never take them seriously.

As for him not being in LA for months.  Again, whatever you choose to believe.  I choose to believe that he's been there way more than we've seen. Interesting how often both Rob and Kristen have been MIA at the same time since the "break up".

As for Rob moving to London....okay, if you want to believe that that's your choice.  But I don't see any evidence that he has done.  He was in London in December.  But He always goes to London for Christmas, yes he went earlier than normal, but how does that prove that he moved there?  Could he have bought a home in London, yes, absolutely.  Does that mean he is planning on living there full time?  Nope it doesn't.  Just makes sense that with all the freaking money he has to invest in property so that he has a place to stay when he is there.   But I assume that Kristen will be going with him often.  I'm sure that as a family they will be traveling there more often since they'll want their child to get to know the grands.  LOL

09x1990 asked you:
I was just going through your post from yesterday, and I have to say the only thing that makes me raise an eyebrow regarding the (possible) pregnancy is why tabloids have not said anything. But really, if we are correct and these two manage to welcome a baby with a majority of people thinking they are broken up, I will be laughing for the rest of my life.

I think that the toids have been so wrapped up in their bogus break-up story that they've been spewing for the last several months that they don't dare say anything about the pregnancy otherwise they will have to admit that they are fucking full of shit.  But really I'll never understand why they are so late to the party.  But I'm really glad they are.  I hope once and for all ppl will realize what utter horse shit the toids are and that you certainly can't buy the paps accounting of what was going on when the pix were taken.  

Paps want to sell pix so of course the more salacious they can make the story behind them seem the more money they will get for the pix and it doesn't hurt the toids cause then it makes their job easier.  They don't have to be as creative to come up with their own plotline to sell the pix.  They just use the plotline given by the asshat paps.

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i've been checking k's insta cuz i like watchin her post #s go up but recently her post # stopped. do u think she cud be staying off of insta just 2 b safe so none of her pics of her baby bump get released by accident? and also cud she maybe be the pregnant girl in still alice but 2 fool peeps they list her as the other girl? luv ur blog!!

Anon...I do not check out Kristen's IG.  Again for anyone that's gonna start asking me about this, it's private I guess you can see how many pix she has on it, but that's about it.  There's no way to know for certain that it's even her's.  BUT!  If it is her's no, I don't think she's not posting because of pix of her pregnant.  I doubt very much that there are a lot of selfies on her IG.  She's just not that type of girl.  I doubt that the pix on her IG are that thrilling at all.  Again for the reason you gave.  It's not out of the realm of possibility for her to be hacked, so I'm sure she's very circumspect with what she does post.  I think it's probably just another way for her to keep up with her friends and what THEY are doing than for her to share with them what she's doing.  jmo

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I have been following your timeline and babygate and by that, RK baby might have his/her birthday right in the middle of his/her parents'! :D

That's possible, but I think just as possible and perhaps more likely is that baby RK will be born prior to K's bday...or perhaps mum and baby will have the same bday!  LOL  We'll see, well maybe, who knows if we'll ever get a birthday out of those two.  

Check out Tales from the Darkside Vol. VII

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Is it probable that k and rob will come back to la at same time? He has to go back to finish life and her to finish still alice

It's possible.  Depends on how much longer the shoot in Toronto is for Life and how long Kristen is needed for Still Alice.  

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Pattinsonated Kristen and Pattinsonator Rob together in NYC last weekend,oooooh!

I wonder why the anonymous from nyc didnt say something about k pregnancy last weekend? Teresa h

I got these little diddies last week and was just blown away.  

A pregnant Kristen Stewart and RPatz were together last weekend - an eyewitness in NYC.

Not teasing just stating fact. Be happy....

Personally, my eyewitness wasn't telling me anything that I didn't already know.  But the fact that they came to me anon I think actually give them a little more credibility.  They didn't come looking for attention and I loved that he/she noticed Kristen's baby bump!  That was icing on the cake for me!

I did a little research...not giving away any of my blogger trade secrets, but let's just say that I believe that my eyewitness is on the up and up.  Anon eyewitness has not returned to give any more information.  I of course would love it if they would.  As for why they didn't share before, they may not be as proficient with social media or they just found my blog and felt it was a safe place to share their sighting.  I mean it's really not safe for someone that doesn't want a lot of attention to share things on twitter, they are usually hounded to death there.  So sharing a sighting anonymously makes a lot of sense to me.  But NYC Eyewitness, please know that this is a safe place and we'd be happy to hear more from you.

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Hey mama nails really big fan of your blog! I just learned that a lady my mom is acquaintances with is nine months pregnant. She is a lot heavier than kris but she has no stomach just big in hips. Incredible! !!

jmf-blog asked you:
Morning! Here's an update to my pregnant waitress who hid it for nine months. I saw her this morning, with the baby. Not working but having breakfast with her family. I had the opportunity to speak with her, she looks the same. You would never ever be able to tell she was pregnant or gave birth last week. The baby is beautiful, tiny and healthy, I asked her how many pounds she gained and she said 15, but never bought maternity clothes. She is back to her normal size 0's. She looks fantastic.

I love hearing about all of these pregnancies that are going undetected.  It does bolster babygate but I wish the haters and naysayers would actually read this and comprehend it, but alas I have no doubt that their denial runs deep.

I can't blame the haters, they are just trying to hold on for dear life.  Not sure what the naysayers problem is!

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i have a feeling that kristen is wearing rob's clothes on the set of still alice what do u think?

libvy asked:
The black beanie and the grey button down shirt look familiar :P

After staring at the new pics of k for a while, I couldn't help but notice a grey shirt and black denim jacket that seem to belong to a certain mr pattinson;)? Also, kudos to kristen for keeping her bump so well hidden :D love you blog!!!

Hello, I want your opinion on this - Do you think RK could be already married/ getting married or maybe later on? Love your Blog✌

Do u think rob and kristen are married? I heard some fans talking about it and im starting to believe it may be true?

Mama, Mama, Mama! Loving those new pics of Kristen in NYC. Bump growing fast now and bulging out from just under her boobs - check. Wearing Rob's denim jacket - check. Wearing that rust coloured hoody Rob had on in the fanpic taken at JFK airport early in the New Year - check. Last but not least, if you zoom in to some of those new photos, you get an added bonus. Kris is wearing a gold ring on a significant finger of her left hand. Not just any finger. THE finger. Double bloody check!

OMG!!!! I can't wait to see what the nonnies have to say about these pics!!!! I love it!!! That bridge just blew, and the fence collapsed!!!

preciousstew asked you:

you can totally see her baby bump on the new set pics :) i'm sitting here and smiling like a fool lol

This is about to happen:

to any argument that says that RK have not seen each other lately and that babygate is just a theory.  I think we can say at this time that the theory has been proven.

This added pic is thanks to @RKsoulmates913

I gotta say I love our fandom CSI.  Looks like the same shirt and jacket to me!

Again, surprising how much of his clothes Rob left behind when he moved out!  Muahahahahahaha....

For my peeps that asked if RK could get married.  Well, this is an interesting plot twist.  Since when have we ever seen a gold band on THE finger before?  But there one is plain as day.  Does it prove anything, no, but very very interesting if you ask me!

And I don't know about you all, but that looks like quite a bump under them boobs.  It looks to me that the bump has now surpassed the boobs.  But...again that's what my

see.

Awwww, look at Julianne Moore and Alec Baldwin.  And as I always suspected, Kristen did NOT go blonde for this role.  Never thought she would, totally not important for the character and with Julianne's coloring and Kristen's they totally look like they could be Mother and Daughter.

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shesbackinforks asked you:

So my friend and I were just making Robsten imagines for our account when she updated me about the fetus K pic on Jules' twitter, and we started to wonder, "what if Kristen's mom are going through baby pics because she feels like her daughter has grown up so fast?" Like what if Jules look on those old baby pics because her daughter is getting her own baby? I don't know if it makes sense to you, but it kinda clicked to us. xx Kath and Amanda

BabyStew is alway so precious.  As most of you know, I don't have any children, but I think if I was about to become a grandma, I would be a bit nostalgic and look through my "baby's" baby pix.

Since I didn't have that great a relationship growing up with my dad, it really warms my heart to see Kristen with her's.  She and papastew seem to have a great relationship, and he and Jules seem very supportive of their daughter.

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And I leave you all with this...

baby otters!

No matter what all babies are just adorable!

Tales from the Darkside Vol. IX

Hello...it's time for another installment!  Lots of questions and observations from Team Darkside as well as some comments from fence sitters.

Anonymous asked:

Hey mama, this is teresa h. Finally getting around to getting my question to u. Feel so honored. Last pic k took in Nashville with caterers her bump was obvious. Do u think she has gotten any bigger? All the tweets coming from nyc are saying people saw her but they are not saying they went up to her or posed for pic with her. She seems to be constantly in transit.

Check out the jacket k is wearing in the Nashville pix with the caterers. Thats rob jacket. Teresa h

Hey Teresa....glad you finally found your way to me on tumblr!  

I agree, you can see a bit of the top of that bump in this pic.  But I have no doubt that the naysayers and haters are still gonna poopoo us...but we will know for certain in time.

At this point in her pregnancy if I'm correct she should be gaining about 1lb per week.  At some point I hope there will be a definitive bump, but who knows?  One of our own Havenette's JMF shared a story about the waitress that they see every week never really showing.  So, though many of us see, I'm not sure if we all will before the baby gets here.  It will solely depend on Kristen and how cooperative she feels like being and whether a lucky photographer (please be a fan! and not a pap) gets the perfect picture at the perfect angle and then we can put the is she or is she not to rest and move the fuck on.

As for the jacket..I agree looks like one of Rob's to me!

Anonymous asked:
Hi I just have a few questions: do u know if k is in NYC? There's no pix . Do u know if k is really filming Still Alice because there seems to be more talk of America Ultra . Why is America ultra so lengthy?

I do believe that Kristen is doing Still Alice, and the signs point to Kristen being in NYC and starting filming next week.   As for more talk about American Ultra some productions are more vocal than others, that doesn't have anything to do with whether one project is happening or not. 

As for why American Ultra is filming over 8 weeks rather than the usual 5/6 weeks of most indie productions, I've discussed that very topic in Tale from the Darkside Vol. VII

Anonymous asked:

I believe k is giving birth somewhere between late April and early may! I believe this is the reason for the very long au shoot. Either she having baby first and then film or film first and then baby. Or film stop have baby then go back to filming. Do u think I could be right?

I touched on this very topic at length and spelled out my beliefs very concisely in Tales from the Darkside Vol. VII 

I personally don't think her giving birth in the middle of filming makes a lot of sense.  I personally believe that she'll give birth prior to filming.  Check out my rational...

Anonymous asked:

All Right mama nails I'll be honest I would love it if Kristen was indeed pattinsonated but she just does not look like it, I mean I definitely see weight gain but the baby bump seems to appear and disappear. I am totally confused.

I can understand the confusion my dear, and I wish I could loan you my eyes so that you can see what I see.  But perhaps some of the observations below can help clarify why you don't always see the bump in every picture.

Anonymous asked:

Teresa Palmer when she was 9 months pregnant, you can still see her bump but barely when she's wearing a baggy jacket like this au(.)eonline(.)com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2014028/rs_600x600-140128130540-600(.)Teresa-Palmer-Instagram(.)ms(.)012714(.)jpg Sorry for the brackets, wouldn't let me post a link in an ask, but just remove the brackets and copy and past the URL

Hi my sweet...such a good point!  This pic truly points out how easy it is to hide a baby bump in plain sight; I certainly would not have guessed that she was 9 months in this pic.  & how the angle of the picture makes all the difference into what we can see.  Looking at this picture I could not tell that she was pregnant.  But I do know in fact that she recently gave birth to a baby boy.

I will ask a favor for the future for all that wish to share links to photographs.  I know that tumblr discourages links in asks and makes it impossible but I do have my submit option available, there you can send a link easily.  However if you do forward one through the ask box, it is actually easier for me if you leave a space where the dot should be rather than the bracket.  Thanks for your help, this speeds things up for me greatly!

Anonymous asked:

Hi Mama. Love your blog. Just wanted to make a small observation. The seam running up the middle of that black mini skirt Kristen was wearing in the Rosabotanica photoshoot is following a very interesting line. If she had a totally flat tummy, the seam would be lying straight. Instead, it's distorted in exactly the way you would expect to see, if there was a neat little bump growing behind it.

I believe this is the picture you are referring to my dear.  I applied a two different effects in order to enhance what you are referring to.  Yup...I see the bump...it's there plain as day.

Anonymous asked:

Just a statement- Idk, I feel like the universe is telling (Me) that Kristen is pregnant pretty constantly. Do you have the same feeling?

Anonymous asked:
K is definitely pregnant! The haters are ridiculous. Its possible for someone to look pregnant in one photo but no one is going to keep looking consistently pregnant in every photo they take for months. I love your blog mama thanx for everything you do. Do you know if k is really in nyc?

You are so right my sweet!  Just check out the picture above of Teresa Palmer at 9 mos.

As for whether or not Kristen is in NYC...All signs to me point to Yes!

We've had numerous sightings and there have been multiple sightings of signs posted for Still Alice filming to commence.  So yup...I think it's a pretty safe bet that Kristen's been in NYC since she left Nashville (though pretty sure she made a pit top in Toronto for a day or two first!)

I just want to take this opportunity to make sure everyone know who I consider to be haters!  Haters to me are the "fans" that hate Kristen and or Robert.  Those are the haters.  I also refer to the naysayers.  The naysayers are supposed "rk fans" the ones to me that come to me constantly and tell me I'm an idiot/stupid/crazy etc. for believing and blogging about babygate.  Naysayers to me are NOT the ppl that just disagree but go about their days and do their own fangirling and leave those of us that are Team Darkside alone to fangirl in our own way.

I have not one time, gone to a blogger that I know is not a believer and told them that they are an idiot for not believing.  I will never do this and I can only ask that the rest of Team Darkside not stoop to this level.  Time of course will tell if those of us on Team Darkside are vindicated or not.  And we can certainly celebrate the new addition to Rob and Kristen's life when and if we are correct.  At that time it would be really nice if all the naysayers would apologize, but I doubt that they ever will.

As I've said many times, if I turn out to be wrong, I will post that I am wrong.  I will not create an excuse as many want me to.  But the true reason ppl want me to create some elaborate excuse for my being wrong (don't think I am) is so that they can ridicule and mock me.  I refuse to give them the satisfaction.

foreverrkfan asked you:

I wonder if RK have scheduled the baby's delivery date like other celebs do? Given their busy schedules and all ... totally just a thought that popped into my head lol

No actually I don't unless it's been predetermined that Kristen will need a cesarean they just don't seem that kind of high maintenance couple.  I would think that they would want to let nature just do it's thing!

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So...there has been a bit of drama in the fandom regarding babygate.  I'm sorry for my part in that but I'm not sorry for blogging about my observations and my beliefs.  I'm sorry that this has made ppl feel like they needed to choose "sides".  That was never part of my plan or what I saw as an outcome of my publishing my "theory"!

I hope that when ppl read my blog that they see someone that sticks to their guns with light hearted humor.  I try to not come across nasty unless it's dished out to me first and then as you know I can come out guns a blazing!

But one thing that I have discovered that truly disappoints me and in some ways my blog and others has put a spotlight on this and I think that this will ultimately be a good thing.  There are ppl that claim to be fans, ppl that have been pointed out to me that have been calling for the TGC for years now that are calling those of us on Team Darkside all kinds of nasty and vile names, not only directly to me in my inbox but going on other blogs and saying just as hurtful things there.  That is what truly makes me sad.  People that are on twitter in particular that are telling ppl who they can and cannot follow.  What they should and should not believe.

The other thing that makes me sad are ppl that think that their way to fangirl is the Right way.  I can tell you right now that there is no Right way to fangirl.  We all do it our own way.  There are those that want to focus on their careers and I say go for it!  I love watching their upcoming projects and am just as anxious to see what movies they both have in the works, as well as the movies that are going to be released over the next year.

But I am just as invested (perhaps overly) in their love story.  I always have and probably always will.  This does not make me a bad fan!  It just makes me what I have always termed an RK fan.

I've been recently introduced to a group of "fans" that think that they are the right kind of fan.  They claim they just want to focus on their careers and leave "gossip/speculation" about their personal lives alone.  I say more power to you!  Go for it.  But...when you lurk on blogs like mine, and HKN and any number of other blogs that do discuss and speculate about RK's personal life and then go back to discuss how much better you all are as fans than you are the highest form of hypocrite in my book!  You are engaging in the very act you condemn us for.  You are gossiping, you are not only gossiping about RK and their personal life by sharing what you see on other blogs, but you are also gossiping about those of us that blog and comment about RK.  And there have been some that have been particularly loathsome in their comments about Verni.  

Verni was kind enough to share her experience watching Kristen direct her first project (to our knowledge) and because she didn't do this the Right way she was condemned for it.  She (gasp) took a few photos!  She dared to comment on "the small bump" and because of that she's deemed a "bad" fan.  Well I'll chime in the rest of the Havenettes...FUCK YOU! You all are no better than the rest of us!  Get off your high horses and look in the mirror.  If you truly are a place of no gossip than stop the gossip.  Stop handing out "awards" to other blogs making fun of them.  To my estimations you are not "fans" at all just hypocritical bullies.

Oh...and for those of you that want to call me a hypocrite.  Just so you know I say this about myself daily.  We are all hypocrites.  I really don't like pap pictures but I like getting pictures of Rob and Kristen.  It's something I constantly struggle with.  I typically don't post pap pictures.  However...I also see a huge difference between pap pictures taken when Rob or Kristen are on set than when they are out and about enjoying their real life.  One I do see as invasive the other I see as promoting their upcoming project.  If the paps would be less stalkerish and invasive I think this would help the whole situation.  But as long as they can make the money they are paid for photos no matter when or where the pictures are taken, they will be taken.  And anyone that says they avoid them 100% of the time is lying.  They are unavoidable.

An anonymous asker just came to me with a comment about another blogger.  I am not naming other bloggers that I choose to no longer follow. I will say I too am disappointed in one particular blogger, not only did she engage in bad mouthing other blogs but she also made derogatory comments about her own followers.  "The Havenettes" know who it is and if you want to check out HKN's blog and read more you are welcome.  Just know that I am a proud "Havenette" this is my home away from home. Those women over there along with HKN are nothing but upbeat and positive.  When trollers come by for a visit we are known to go off, but we as a group steer each other back to the positive.  There have been comments about the fandom drama, that's to be expected and it's been good to vent, which is what I'm doing here.  But I'm not going to give negative sites free publicity.  They'll have to get their hits on their own!

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And I end this post with Rob and his new girl....

She's super cute! & It really is too bad that she's being called a heifer!

Thank you to the creator of this gif! It is perfect

Until the next time...

Mama Nails